This is often where we start when I work with a new client.

If you believe there is no one out there for you to be happy with, how can such a person show up? With this subconscious belief, our conscious mind is always looking for why it won’t work.

What energy are you putting out there?

What reason do you have for impossibility? ie. living in too small town, being too unique, not enough men, not enough “good” men, men only want younger women…

Dating at 50, 60 or 70 is definitely different than when our hormones were running the show at 20 or 25. We have a head on our shoulders and life experience to guide us. Being picky is OKAY. Believing the right person will show up is a saving grace.

When I was dating, I took many tactics. I tried coffee dates, going on 3 dates before deciding, telling dates that I am going to meet 10 and then decide, dinner dates, walking dates, only going out with people who were referred to me dates, quit meeting on-line dating, etc.

It wasn’t until I worked with the same process I use in my practice that I found a good match for me.